Stolenights… Uhhhhhh??? I didn’t understand this ^. If you mean that my post was harsh or something, that was the purpose. Not sleeping and crying for hours isn’t going to solve her situation.
My point is that crazyfool should not get so emotionally charged up like that. She needs to relax and go back to how she approached or reacted toward her fiance. If someone approaches one in a defensive manner (“your dad was rude to my father” or something on the lines of that), obviously the other is going to react harshly. If indeed, there is some sort of problem between the fathers, then both crazyfool and her fiance should figure out how to bridge the gap or decrease the tension. She believes that her FIL doesn’t like her dad, but it could be the other way around. Maybe the FIL thinks that her father doesn’t like them.