I dont get it.
You want to break your engagement because your FIL asked your dad about not having a computer system? And you’ve been crying for the past 7 hours about this? Is it possible that you’re hormonal right now?
no, i want to break it because my fil probably doesnt respect my parents, they hardly meet my family and now cross questioning my dad? marriage is a very sensitiive thing and my fil should be aware of how he talks to my family. they should make some effort as well.
You seem to be overly overly overly sensitive about every little thing that happens around you. So, if you want some sort of sanity in life…please try and be a little more easy going.
well i am very sensitive about everything, but i dont wnt my dads disrespect BCZ of me. now if my parents dont like my in laws its obvious. i cant even complain about it. i’d just have to admit that they are just not that good enough. i wish they were good enough.
You said your inlaws are much better off than you guys. Is it possible your dad might be sensitive to that and took your FIL’s questions as “cross questioning”…you make it sound like your father was in a witness box and your FIL was riling up a court room with theatrics.
yes it is possible that my dad took it harder bcz my dad is less in education then him, and status wise as well.. ofcourse it makes my dad feel like since we r lower they dont like to meet us etc. my dad doesnt have a computerised system bcz he doesnt know how to use a computer and is not good in english..he has only done f.a while my fil is a C.A and at a v high post.. but he shud still be polite.
I dont understand how a simple thing like this went all the way to a broken engagement and your badnaami saari duniya mein. You’re taking your relationship and literally beating it with a stick. So, please stop. If you want to be happy…go ahead and BE HAPPY. Getting worked up over this petty nonsense will get you nowhere.
wel my engagement isnt officially broken im praying it doesnt break.. my fiance got too angry and told me that i have issues with everything so its over.. we have hardly talked ever since, he told me he needs some time apart from me. i tihnk his ego is too big he needs to realise that sometimes his parents make mistakes too. well my lil sister is engaged and rishtas usually always come for her. i dont want to be the old unmarrried sister. this would just kill me.