Re: Urgent Help Needed.......
Shehman.............have some compassion for this girl and let her go by explaining to her ONE LAST TIME that you can't be with her....................and then CUT OFF ALL COMMUNICATION.
Each time you call her..........even if it's for 10 minutes........or just 1 minute........you're hurting her. It's like leading her on.............even if that is not your intention.......and even if you don't perceive it that way.
Just because she contacts you, doesn't mean that you have to pick up the phone.
Imagine yourself in her shoes. How would you feel if you were in love with a girl who rejected you? Wouldn't you try to move on from her so that you can heal? Wouldn't you want some space? Stop responding to her calls and emails. It's not rocket science. It's not hard to do. Yes, it will hurt her.........but she'll eventually understand that you truly mean it when you say that there is no future for the two of you. And this pain will hurt less than the pain of being continuously led on in an a relationship that's not mutual.
Once again.........give her one last firm yet caring and honest explanation..............and the** STOP** the communication. Change your cell number.........block her from sending you emails and instant messages.