Re: Urgent Help Needed.......
NJMasti.....very well said.
Shehman does sound like a perfect gentleman....and you have pointed him in the right direction by telling him that he should be happy with someone that loves him rather than searching forever for someone that he loves but may not love him back.
Chalo.....what's done is done.
Perhaps this was never meant to be.
Although it's sad to see someone pass up the opportunity to be with a girl that dotes on him, hangs on every word he says, caters to his every whim and desire....truly loves him.
Let's also try to forget that he could have gained the favour of Allah by being an influence in someone accepting Islam and potentially becoming a devoted momin.
Let's just put all this behind Shehman.
But be warned.....the next time one of the many girls that you chat with professes her undying love for you after only the first casual meeting which will not be a date, marry her.