I have heared from alot of married women, “Men are only sweet to u at the beginning of Marriage, until they get what they want”
is this true?
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from a guys point of view.. i see a lot of my friends who are married and when i go to visit them, their wife is just as cheerful. and theres something about it that you can tell the happiness is genuine and not because they have guests etc
it varies from person to person - marriage to marriage :)
and i do agree with you, there are some people out there that belong in the "Men are only sweet to u at the beginning of Marriage, until they get what they want" group
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not really true..
sometimes, a woman changes and her expectations rise.. hence they end up thinking that the hubby aint so sweet anymore cus he has me..
ur love for one another changes (on all levels) What a man used to do or say to you in the beginning was cutesy wootsy stuff.. what he does now, prob is the responsibly caring stuff... one doesnt need to shower one with compliments (once a day is always nice though).. there are other ways of being sweet
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on the other hand sadzzz is right
i've heard some of my work colleagues say stuff like "she isnt the woman i married" - meaning, she was one way before marriage and after the marriage, she isnt the same.. whether its by means of slacking or jus being different etc
That’s not true! Makes me laugh - hmmm! what is it that they want?!
It’s not as if they get whatever they “want” and then have the option to turn horrible! Their “wanting” business never ends. So you be the BOSS and make him be as sweet as you want him to be, just like in the beginning of marriage…
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^hahahahah so true.. that cracked me up
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No i dont think thats true but then i have only been married for a couple of years.
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Not true...not even a bit! Everyones not the same..... depends who u are marrying...y not spend some time with him before getting married? get to know him better n u should find out how he is....
However if we put this opposite than yh that could be true :D..." Like this....Women are only sweet to u at the beginning of Marriage, until they get what they want"
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^ 
its been a couple already?? 
oh hell yeh its true…guys r sweet only in the beginning of the marriage…
and those of u who think otherwise r just lucky thats all …
That's not true! Makes me laugh - hmmm! what is it that they want?!
It's not as if they get whatever it is they "want" and then have the option to turn horrible! Their "wanting" business never ends. So you be the BOSS and make him be as sweet as you want him to be, just like in the beginning of marriage...
I like I like! This is good!!!
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chaar din shounq dey
fir ekhoey kuttey bhonkdey
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i hav heard tht … its true 
…when u get somthing .. , u lose its worth
No its not true. Marriage is about commitment, love, respect and honour towards each other. Not just for "what they want".
There are men out there who get what they want these days from gals before marriage. If girls marry these kind of guys, obviously this is bound to happen - they get what they want!
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depends on the reason u are getting married . if you are marrying some1 for the purpose of marriage , then theres no problem
Not true...not even a bit! Everyones not the same..... depends who u are marrying...y not spend some time with him before getting married? get to know him better n u should find out how he is....
However if we put this opposite than yh that could be true :D..." Like this....Women are only sweet to u at the beginning of Marriage, until they get what they want"
well bachaa, ur not married. So i cant really go on ur words...
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I say guys(as husbands) talk sweet on daily basis till the get "what" they want.
Then they just sleep.
That's not true! Makes me laugh - hmmm! what is it that they want?!
It's not as if they get whatever they "want" and then have the option to turn horrible! Their "wanting" business never ends. So you be the BOSS and make him be as sweet as you want him to be, just like in the beginning of marriage...
ok, so say if there's a girl and she is totally smitten by the new hubby, at the beginning and after a few months she see's another side to him. then what?
is it not like falling in love with another person? i suppose this could also be said the same for new wifes too, and why they change after Marriage.
i have seen it so many times, it's fine to say it's not true and it shouldnt be like this. But then why am i seeing it all around me.....
yes my dear its unfortunately true…
well not everyone does..but men do loose it..nd they loose it pretty quickly..no wonder they get married again and again nd again nd again
well these r only “kitaabi batein”"
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well i dont agree with this statement, men CAN get the samething from someone else if thats the only issue here.
i guess when starting a relationship both are excited and put effort to it, with time other things may take over, thats normal. but even though it should stay strong if there is not silly things that annoy eachother, cause these things make people slowly put off the efforts they put in and become careless about steadily. atleast thats my behavior. I try try try to explain and if I am taken not seriously or not understood by someone I leave it. if that happens more, it does create resentment towards a relationship.