Re: Upset..need advice
Amin for the dua for the SIL... and though i am not really gona get into the whole issue ( as it seems to be much better).. but all i was thinking abt while reading these three pages of threads was.. has ne one tried putting themselves in the SIL's shoes.. ( not trying to be mean). but here is a lady who basically got her life messed up.. she needs constant assurance from the ppl she has left.. yeah i do understand that letting her take advantage of every thing will teach her to live it lightly.... but still.. more than being angry i was scared.. reading this story.. chameli u are mashallah happily married..And may u always stay that way... Allah SWT has given u the means to be helpful to some one so near to ur hubby.. make the best use of the opportunity (take things litely.. try not getting paranoid)... u never kno that she is actually really Proud of u for taking care of her kid.. ( and if not i am sure One day Allah Swt is gona reward u .. thats His promise) and u are making that kid love u as it is.. .. be happy yaar.. chill. its just a kid.. make it a game. have fun with him.. if i were u i would take take this opportunity and welcome the little change.. and Have fun:D.. GOd Bless GUrl!