Upset..need advice

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Re: Upset..need advice

@Fraudz

nothing beats a recorded conversation. next time u talk to her, record it

so I agree with a bold confrontation, not a shoutign match but a list of issues, and how u think they can be sorted.

then tell hubby, and if spin starts from her side, share the recording.

Mr Frauds thats like the weirdest thing I have heard:rolleyes:…also can I mention Illegal too.
What this shows that the communication has ended and other tactics are required.

And Chamelli I would suggest a conversation with your husband and your sister in law present like adults is a better option.Prepare what you want to talk to them about in a concise manner and list your concerns as honestly without making others defensive or trying to put blame on others etc.The thing I am saying is try to present it as nuetrallyas possible and also donot expect answers or crtain things like you know maybe your husband coming for your rescue..as with your experience you know you would be setting yourself up for failure.Again clear and concise with all the parties affected present.See how it goes.:)…at least later if it doesnt go well ..u know in your heart of hearts know that you tried your best.