Re: Upset..need advice
^^ Works only in desi dramas. In real life, goal should not be to put anyone down, but to resolve the issue in such a way that you remain friends, even after that
dude, that is if you are friends to begin with. U have to be assertive and you have to draw some limits, and if people contiue to cross those limits they need to be put back in their place.
there is too much 'sharm a hazoori" among desis..everyone knows the crap but everyone pussy foots around it, and beats around the buch, acting all formal and polite when every damn living thing in a 20 mile radius knows that things are anything but normal.
I say confront it head on, politely, assertively, and dont back down and get drawn into tangents. If the other person is putting your credibility at stake and questioning that, you have to correct that. audio tape, video tape, witness, whatever.
heck sit down with the lady and her bro at the same time and keep cool about ya and just solve the 'misunderstanding' so she may feel ambushed, but such is life.