Aww lol. Cherry let it go now. Dont be so defensive. Its just an online forum. Not everyone will be on your side nor can be really. I hope you did get some encouragement from the ladies who could understand your problem. Most of the posters here on GS come with controversial issues regarding their inlaws and all that, so we (the random posters) tend to generalize things usually but does that really matter to you? It shouldnt. And anyway, most of the poeple who annoyed you are not even in your shoes, right.
Please let it be what I or hannibal or anyone else said in the thread. Focus on the positive replies, thank them and move on.