Re: unwanted interference from mother in law
I have MashAllah two kids, one is going to be three year old in couple of days and other is 6 months old
And i take care of them like anything, so is there mama and so is there grand ma ( from both sides) and so is there other family members
Kids must be fed on Mother’s milk, if not then only formula milk is advised by the right kind of peds, and that is also, kids should be given solids and for a nine month old, Sagodana and Suji kheer is totally OK, it help them gain all the things they want for their body… these sagodana and suji are lot more better then the cerelac and other cereals made for infants!!!for my 2nd kid, apart from getting his regular feed from his mama, he likes dairy milk and product more than his own stuff… so we give that and guess what the idiot ped is also ok with it…
Now, the more hands are on the baby, the more baby play around with the young kids the more immune he will get!!! No one can provide 100% protection to the babies, they are meant to get sick, even adults get sick when they re-locate or goes to new destination, no big deal..
Just for your info, my elder son went to Pakistan in winter when he was 4 months old, and my younger went there to attend the wedding of my sis when he was 20 days old… both survived the weather, the functions and the all the hugging and kissing.. the difference is, it never bothered my wife that who is holding the baby and who is not, that gave us healthier babies… who are social enough to be taken to any function and survive