hey girl… wud love to meet u… how soon are you comin here? we should meet up for some coffee yar tum bhi toh hadd kari ho… why do u gift them suchhhhhhhh expensive stuff… MIL tak toh theek hai but why do u buy gifts for ur BIL… i was v shocked to read this yar. trust me, i have so much to tell u… i also tried to impress my inlaws(incld his 2 mami’s here with loads of gifts and thoughtful things) but i just get appreciation from the elders but the kids… thaz another story, i dun seem to bring them close to me… my hubby told me spend alot of money on them and see how they will run after u becus he has learnt the hard way that ppl are materialistic and will be drawn towards u if u take out that cash… unfortuantely to an extent i agree cus tell me if someone spends money on u wudnt u feel nice and important? maybe in ur case cus ure always givin gifts they take it for granted…kher, my point is sometimes really money cant buy everything