^ Because....at least for the wedding day(s), the bride should wear what she wants and feels comfortable in...not what anyone else chooses (unless of course she wants somenoe else to choose :p). with other things given later on if you dont like them you can give em away, sell them, do whatever, but it's not so easy to do so with a dress you have to wear on your wedding day(s)..anyways this is going sliiiightly off topic.. mybad..
PS I know my post said jahez/barri stuff...but i meant the wedding day, mistake on my part.
hmmm , challo koi baat naheen, :)