a gift is a gift and should be taken in good spirits, after all it is not a debt that they have to pay to yourhighness. fighting over it with a husband is totally foolish why should he be responsible for his parents choice?most girls whine about pressure from in laws on such amtter yet its ok to cause him grief over gifts? as u said you dont wear em when you dont like them tou its not like you go out of ur way to be nice . seriously i absolutely detest such mentality. and this brings to me a horrible woman i once had misfotune of meeting. that should explain my very strong language.