yes u r right waisay the tradition in my family is the way they want it but i dont like this tradition :S wotsoeverrrrr but i will definetly ask her to take me along they r in karachi and i am in isb but am going to kar for my shopping so probably Allah will make a way for me :)
Well in most families it is the tradition that one lehnga is from parents and another from guy's side. so she might just be making up this tradition...anyways just go with her and choose ur stuff urself!