unhappy marriage.

[sarab]

Re: unhappy marriage.

@NomiCA

its entirely possible.......when at the advanced stages of gameplay.....:D

That man is gay! Only joking. I play videogames and most of them have a 'save' function, unless you play one of those MMORPG's, which is really sad in my opinion.

[NomiCA]

Re: unhappy marriage.

@sarab

That man is gay! Only joking. I play videogames and most of them have a 'save' function, unless you play one of those MMORPG's, which is really sad in my opinion.

ya.....ur right brotherman :D

[melchi656]

Re: unhappy marriage.

@Sara_pathan

It is not the big things, maybe you wed-locked folks all suffer this. I dont know. Hes a 90percent good man, however its the small things that are making me unhappy. I am not sure if they are indeed small or not.
Like, when he asks for something for example to turn the tv off and lets sleep, he will expect me to turn it off asap, rather than me say, not yet i want to watch it, even if he says ok, hel sulk about it. just now, he was making the baby sleep while i was watching something ( its not a daily habit just some drama i like comes on once a week) and he was saying when does it finish, i said 1min, now after that 1min i went to clear up the other room and put the washing out, after few mins he got angry and was telling me off, he wouldve shouted had baby not been aslp/and others in house not aslp, anyway his voice was loud enough for baby to hear who woke up crying, and he just put her on her cot and told me to put her to slp, the way he put her into her cot, not in a gentle way, ok so he didnt slam her in, but gussein mein kiya, was enough. almost as if he couldve taken his anger out. didnt even understand what hes angry about.
other things like his manner can be harsh/quiet, he talks very formly to me in front of others, hes a very formal person, never gets involved in gupshup with people, keeps himself to himself. hes different when we alone, but i want him like that all the time. not so formal.
if i cook something and if he doesnt want to taste it, he wont.
if i ask him something, hel say ok ok in aminute in aminute..never when i ask.
if i ask the question why…to anything, he gets angry and says why u asking why…

ps.I never make him turn off tv, or whatever. even if i say stop playing games ( ps3) he will say ok one more game…sometimes he does listen, but he will still play until his interest finished then he will say ok you stop whatever ur doing too…

I had enough. I wish i never married him.

I can tell that you are very frustrated with your relationship with your husband. The last sentence that you have written down are actually seem to be very dangerous; dangerous to the extent that it might lead you to filling out some divorce papers. But you know what, you seem to have some good points there. Why not try a free marriage counseling? This can really help your relationship a lot.

[Hassan007]

Re: unhappy marriage.

I concur with above poster. You need to seek marriage counseling for both of you.

[SadiKhan]

Re: unhappy marriage.

@Sara_pathan

It is not the big things, maybe you wed-locked folks all suffer this. I dont know. Hes a 90percent good man, however its the small things that are making me unhappy. I am not sure if they are indeed small or not. Like, when he asks for something for example to turn the tv off and lets sleep, he will expect me to turn it off asap, rather than me say, not yet i want to watch it, even if he says ok, hel sulk about it. just now, he was making the baby sleep while i was watching something ( its not a daily habit just some drama i like comes on once a week) and he was saying when does it finish, i said 1min, now after that 1min i went to clear up the other room and put the washing out, after few mins he got angry and was telling me off, he wouldve shouted had baby not been aslp/and others in house not aslp, anyway his voice was loud enough for baby to hear who woke up crying, and he just put her on her cot and told me to put her to slp, the way he put her into her cot, not in a gentle way, ok so he didnt slam her in, but gussein mein kiya, was enough. almost as if he couldve taken his anger out. didnt even understand what hes angry about. other things like his manner can be harsh/quiet, he talks very formly to me in front of others, hes a very formal person, never gets involved in gupshup with people, keeps himself to himself. hes different when we alone, but i want him like that all the time. not so formal. if i cook something and if he doesnt want to taste it, he wont. if i ask him something, hel say ok ok in aminute in aminute..never when i ask. if i ask the question why...to anything, he gets angry and says why u asking why......

ps.I never make him turn off tv, or whatever. even if i say stop playing games ( ps3) he will say ok one more game...sometimes he does listen, but he will still play until his interest finished then he will say ok you stop whatever ur doing too...

I had enough. I wish i never married him.

sounds a bit like my husband .. whenever I say something he disagrees.. or he will suggest something else.. and then after realising that what he said wasn't quite good.. he'll do exactly as I said before.. but he will NOT admit that I was right..

I'll give you piece of advice which is working for me.. go with him.. put your baby to sleep.. eveyrhting you do usually.. and then tell him you have bits and bobs to clean in the kitchen.. and you'll be back soon..