unhappy marriage.

diwana · January 18, 2011, 2:58am

Re: unhappy marriage.

no guys, GOSH i sound like nadz.lol sorry girl :

Its because i feel like my views dont have any value, we went to pakistan, and he wanted to go by emirates, i wanted to go by PIA because its a direct flight and better for our baby..anyway he said its onyl 2 hour stay in dubai plus its easier for his family to pick us up because PIA goes to islamabad which is 4 hours away from peshawar right? he said they will need to hire 2 cars ( theire own car needs to be fixed, and the car his dad had has gone as his dad is now retired ) so hiring cars and then travelling all the way is harder, its better to go by emirates where the airport is 5mins away from home. in the end he booked Emirates he didnt value my opinion.

does this sound silly of me? does it make sense. even though emirates was more expensice than PIA.

and other things like i said its little things that grate on me, like he will expect no questions asked from me, if i cry, he thinks im always crying, so no big deal. he wants certain dishes and today we had mehmaan round so i didnt make his desired dish, but made what the mehman wanted and he was huff-puff about that, didnt seem to care as maybe he wouldve had we not argued yday.im fed up of him thinking he has the upper hand, whats worse is that he never looks at himself, at wheres he wrong, never admits it, never says sorry ( on the big issues) and i dnt think hes changed, hes always been like this, and said he would change, he hasnt.

You took my words out of me.

Yes another Nadz in making.

OK

Let me try to explain.

Men and women when married, are to be there and should be for the long hall.

Two inivduals get tied in to each other in marriage with their consent. I assume you were too.

You got in to this relation somehow, and acceped the person.

None of your post says anything which shows he is a horrible/terrible person.

I do not think you have anything substantial there to make a case.

**Write one loooong post for all your concerns please and be done with. **

Sorry to be honest and blunt.