Unfortunate Story

rizla86 · July 5, 2011, 9:23pm

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It only takes a week to get a divorce?

Sajania786 · July 5, 2011, 11:23pm

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hey shark

dont let her stay here make sure you report the authorities of your divorce and her back to pakistan after the way she treated you.

http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/partnersandfamilies/partners/ifyourrelationshipends/

gupper.shupper · July 6, 2011, 12:18am

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is your brother involved?

i would say get rid of her

Shak_killS · July 6, 2011, 12:47am

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if you saying is even half truth, then you should have pressed your foot down a long time ago, she would have reacted in positive, by reading it you have been trying and she is under the impression you will not go anywhere whatever she does. bottom line, she doesnt like you then get rid of this relationship good for both in the end!

sharklaser2 · July 6, 2011, 11:29pm

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Yeah pressing my foot down got me nowhere either really. It’s all over now anyway.

I went on holiday for a week and when I returned my dad had gone through my room and explored every nook and cranny and removed every trace of her even existing.

At least I sleep peacefully at night now.

sharklaser2 · October 12, 2011, 9:07am

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8 days left until this sorry tale comes to an end :(

sweet_iez55 · October 12, 2011, 11:02am

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feeling sorry for you....

can't u just ask ur bro to ignore her

nausheen86 · October 12, 2011, 11:08am

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Is she going back to pakistan or is she staying?

sweet_iez55 · October 12, 2011, 11:17am

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oopps i just didnt read the whole thread and drop my comments... have u already decided to get divorced?....... i wud suggest you to talk to her her parents not bcz of her, just bcz of Allah, as divorce is legal but always disliked by Almighty

Barfii · October 12, 2011, 11:27am

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Sharkie, I feel for you! I would dread for my brother, BIL's, male cousins to have the same thing happen to them that happened to you.

You seem like a really decent chap and I sincerly wish you the best of luck for the future and pray you find an honest and caring wife that will love you the way you deserved to be loved!!

As for your ex-wife.. What goes around, comes around!!

sharklaser2 · October 12, 2011, 7:41pm

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I don't know, she has no right to stay here anyway.

sharklaser2 · October 12, 2011, 7:43pm

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I have tried, tbh she left home and havent had any contact, her parents wanted me to forgiver her obviously and lied and lied that they don't know where she is to stall everything until they come over, tbh I can't be bothered with such politics and lies, the severe damage was done when she left home and didn't make any contact within 48 hours except through the police, no contact since either.

Thank god she didn't leave with a child.

Midnight_express_91 · October 12, 2011, 7:57pm

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come on!! whats the films name??

Just kidding. Sorry to hear about ur situation none the less. When karma bites, it bites hard!

nadeemnirvana · October 12, 2011, 9:15pm

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tell your wife your brother and his friend have booked their flights and will join you two for a good jolly up holiday.

ask your brother if he wants to join you. what will he say? 2000 texts lol and he didnt tell you? what else hasnt he told you?

also when your wife went missing for 48 hours where was your brother? are you sure?

nausheen86 · October 12, 2011, 9:19pm

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If she is not with you and doesnt have her stay then she should go.

DaffyDuck · October 13, 2011, 4:32am

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For the first time on Life1, I get that true TROLL feeling from this thread & I so don’t want to advise!

sharklaser2 · October 13, 2011, 10:15am

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I assure you 100% that this sequence of events is completely real, and not fictional in any way!

I never knew people like this even existed, clearly they do.

I can’t believe her parents would have such a hand in ruining their daughters life.

sharklaser2 · November 6, 2011, 7:07pm

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Took a little longer than expected but all ended now.

There is no other thing that explains her behavior except the fact she was histrionic, perfectly fits the symptoms, apparently 2% of people suffer from it, it had to be me :S

Hulahoop_Queen · November 6, 2011, 11:22pm

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^Im sorry to hear that but things happen for the best! You wouldnt want to spend your life with someone like that anyways...

sammi4ever · November 10, 2011, 4:35am

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Okay well I have been watching this thread for like 2 days now and now that I can FINALLY post ( after a whole day of waiting and longing) I have to ask you this question:
Did that kamini ( sorry if you take offense but she is a HUGE one) get deported or not? Get her deported cause she does not deserve to live here.

Good luck my friend. I'm sure god won't be cruel and has a WHOLE LOT BETTER bride in store for you :) ! Keep on looking and don't lose hope. Allah ke har kam mein acchahe hota hai. For example my khala's MIL was supposed to go visit my khala when she was prego in London. Her visa was turned down and her son was sad. Afterwards (when my aunt had her baby) her MIL got the visa and came over. Soon after we got a crying phone from my aunt saying a big fight happened. What's sad is that her MIL is her Khala and that her khala would actually start something so huge to make her this upset. So point is: Her MIL not being able to come during her pregnancy was good because {a} the MIL stressed out my khala and made her cry {b} her MIL does no **** at all (a.k.a no work).

I hope for the best.