Re: Unfortunate Story
Another perfect example of when to get elders involved. The joy of an arranged marriage is that elders give their blessings and are there to be a buffer between husband and wife when needed. This brother of yours should be well aware that hsi bhabi is focusing on him too much also and so you should put it all out there on the table. your parents will hit your brother for being a moron and feeding into this stupid larki and her parents will surely get a call about the way she’s disgracing them by being so dismissive to her husband especially while she’s living with him and getting that opportunity to live in a country that so many other pakistani people would die for. Sounds like a spoiled girl to me, that is if this story really is the way you’re saying it. Also I’ve seen it happen a lot when the person from the west brings the person from the east that they carry a candle for some old love of theirs and sometimes when their greencard and such is set they leave their marriage for their childhood sweetheart, make sure you’re not being used for the opportunity that you can give her.
Agree entirely about the spoiled part, re childhood sweethart - god only knows.
All I know is that I have been taken for a ride good and proper, the saying is to treat those how you would like to be treated, I guess not everyone believes this.