another story: (this is creepy)
the same rishta auntie tells my mom about another guy. fair, tall, handsome, really good job, religious (he had just come back from hajj). sounds perfect right? sooo we exchange a few simple “biodata” emails and pictures. seems to be ok so far. i’m not like over the top impressed, but still decide to pursue and see what happens.
we end up talking on the phone. i ask him about his job and education and where he went to school and what he thinks about wife working, moving (we lived in diff states). he totally avoids talking about his job title and salary and says he doesn’t feel i need to know. he’s not “comFARTable” with me asking (HIS EXACTS WORDS). OKAY mister!
he then literally proceeds to ask me some really wierd and what i felt inappropriate questions right after i made him uncomFARTable…like how many kids i want and how long after being married i want to start trying for kids. ummmm hello, you won’t even tell me your job title yet you want me to share this info with you in our first conversation? we haven’t even established the fact if we’re compatible or like each other!
i decide i want to find out more about him so i google up his name…and am literally SHOCKED. the first five or so queries are porn/adult sites where he has posted a profile with all his “details” including describing in detail his size and shape and what he’d like to do with his masculinity.
astragfirullah X infinity. and he claimed to be hajjee and namazee.
i told my mom and had her contact the rishta auntie who told us of him and asked her to take him off her list! needless to say, she was shocked.
that was the last conversation i had with him!
Astaghfirullah and then people wonder why I have nothing against people who drink? Atleast they’re honest and straightforward about things unlike this hajee dude
