Zamana
July 9, 2010, 7:31pm
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^ why does it embarrass you ? your uncle did the right thing. he really cared for you hence did so much investigation , there is nothing wrong about it. From what you have written I can see that your family did investigate and you made quite many 1st moves for this rishta. things didn’t work out and that is just fine. I think if any of his family member would have tried to come to US to meet your family your decision would have been different. But I don’t see any efforts on their part. Don’t regret. You have the right to say NO to a rishta . Regarding his dad being in jail , I don’t think he should have been blamed for his dad being in jail. We all are responsible for our own deeds and no body else’s. Plus I remember reading somewhere on GS too that not all the people who have been jailed in Pakistan are culprits or criminals , we all know stories of innocent people ending up in jails. So really would not judge his father , may be he was at fault may be he was not.
anyway I hope you get loads of happiness in your future ameen
thank you so much! My dad said the same thing that we will not judge him based on what his father has done. I think he made me feel like I should be embarrassed. Khair you are right I just hope I am not punished with an busive husband because I let someone I liked slip away.
These stories are like nightmares!!