"Some even photoshped the picture to make her like heroin. I don't know why ppl who are religious and doing all this dhoka"
LOL. that reminds me. One time, my mom's aunt had like five or six daughters. and one was sort of ugly, so when her her rishta (who was like the handsomest guy in the village that my mom came from) came, the pretty sister sat in front of the rishta. THen like the on the of the day of wedding, the husband was so shocked!! He didn't say anything, but he went to London for six months, and didn't talk to anyone. But then he felt sorry for his wife and came back. THey had children and everything, and no drama- so I guess they lived happily.
I don't know why ppl do drama and dhoka. Jis say shadi honi hai wo karay ga hi time lug sakta hai dhoka kioon dain. I don't know why ppls imaan is going so down for worldy thing.
As you said 1 of my cousin I met him after so long when I was visiting Pakistan and he told me that he is getting married.
He invited me. When I saw the girl oh my god just opposite of him. Yay kah lain kon si burai na thi us main jo wo na pasand karta ho. As I know My cousing since young age.
She is not only budsoorat but budmizaaj too and talkin like him like a jahil. I can't believe my ears. As I left after few days of his wedding. And when I made a call. She was cheekhing like a jahil to tell him I call. Remember few days of marriage.
I was so shocked and thought she not be enough educated. I didn't say a word to him and I felt sorry for him. I know he wouldn't like her behaviour.
She has asma too. They hide that from him for so long. To hide from him about her asma she didn't took har madicine. She use to faint becasue of that. He have to call her parents and bahnoi to pick her up because she is so huge.
Then he asked doctor why she faints again and again then doctor told him she has asma.
Now he is really mad at her, her family, his own sister who did everything for this rishta.
Even his brother in law says to him when he saw her after some time of marriage that. your sister was blind or what. Everyone and his friend says yaar kis say shadi karli. She is even older than him.
He doesn't give lift to her. I think bad behaviour with her. When I try to calm him down he get mad at me don't want to listen a single word about her.