Unfaithfulness, how can it be forgivable?

[sagittarian]

Re: Unfaithfulness, how can it be forgivable?

@queer

sagi, i think the real reason you are trying to bring forth is that a woman who has committed to being a housewife will have a hard time being independent. if you dont have that option, you are essentially a hostage if your husband goes rogue.

none of what you say is for the sake of children.

i repeat those words for the sake of my children just on the basis of my personal experience… once i had some issue with my hubby(not about cheating stuff) n i had to live with my parents for almost 6-7 months..its hard to even recall how my children suffered n they started a sort of blaming me tht why v r nt going back home? why daddy dont come? they used to talk to their father on daily basis asking him to take them back..people’s attitudes towards me n my children have changed so much. though my parents are financially stable, but it wuz really hard asking for anything for my kids.. at that time i realized whatever issues ill b having with my hubby i will never make a big issue out of it… thts y i say its for the sake of my children… and yes things would have been different if i were independent/working at my own that time..thts y i said it depends on circumstances…