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Well, now u know my thought process CM.. lets go meet u're friends! blush
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LOL
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Its good to know you agree you aren't sane....also as long as you go no where near my mother we are good.
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Yeah it's hard to tolerate u CM.. but then again im a nice person. I said whatever was bothering me..now u'll have NO difficulty understanding me! U were talking about going out with u're friends..and catching a movie too right? I can be ready in less than an hour.
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i see
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But I am utterly charming. You said so yourself over that tiramisu. One hour is great. Sorry I can't pick you up, I am walking a co-worker home. I bet you won't mind buying the ticket for me? Thanks honey.
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First rule:
To understand a woman, stop trying to understand her. Whatever she does is right. Even when she is wrong she is right because she is SHE and you are just a HE!
LONG VERSION ANSWER:
Seriously though, women are territorial. They dont want their man within 5 yards of another person. The reason is simple and goes back to how humans are created. (Anthropology lesson coming up!). Men are designed to procreate and therefore are always in search of (Consciously or subconsciously) good child breeders (Aka women).
Unfortunately for them, this instinct gets them into trouble nowadays as the trend for sharing women or having multiple partners only now exists in a casanovas minds or some backward tribe up in a lonely mountain somewhere. Womens natural instinct is to find and protect good seeds for healthy beautiful children so they will cling on to anyone that matches that with every hair on their head!
SIMPLE ANSWER:
The really really simple reason your girl had her issues? YOU DIDNT ASK HER PERMISSION TO GO!
Honestly, if you dont want a girl to get pissed off at you, you simply ask her permission. Her feminine nature will cause her to say yes even if she hates your guts at that moment and even if she regrets her decision, she cant backtrack.
This is not about authority. Its about inclusion and wanting to feel that her feelings and opinions are important to you.
And when you get permission-throw in the "Thanks..but will you be ok??" as a concern for her safety and you can stay out the whole night.;)
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hahahhaahhaah... lmao.(yet another co-worker.. beginin to doubt if it was purely innocent the first time:P)
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First rule:
To understand a woman, stop trying to understand her. Whatever she does is right. Even when she is wrong she is right because she is SHE and you are just a HE!
i second this rule!!!!
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bangs head against wall Permission to walk a co-worker home? Aie.... Next you would be telling me talking to my female friends on gchat is something she should know about. Currently single but I am assuming this would be a problem?
And misty...it was all innocent. That is what I told Gina and I am sticking with my story! Plus if she ever asks you...you tell her the same. There is a nice set of ear rings in it for you!
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They really hate me :(
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hmmmm earring wont do it. u need a btr bargainin chip here!
othwise it wil b me n gina n some girl talk while sippin some coffee:P .lol
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It seems that these words should be written up ALL over the SKY!
It’s one of those - “great people, Great words” type of saying thinggie 
Finally, we found a man’s weakness! They hate being told they will neva understand women!!!
… and it’s true - we are successful in keeping ourselves soooooo secretive lol
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Hey I can tell you what my weakness is right now. A scantily clad woman in my bedroom. I don't care what she wants....she can have it!
Oh well I guess I need to find someone else anyway. Misty...what are you doing for dinner?
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special advice to CM - please ignore alll comments from a certain ape/animal in the house…if you want to actually understand the woman.. 
…how rude!! 
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finding myself a co-worker to walk me home!:P
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bangs head against wall Permission to walk a co-worker home? Aie.... Next you would be telling me talking to my female friends on gchat is something she should know about. Currently single but I am assuming this would be a problem?
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You have already figured out the simplest way to finding out what will be a problem. The things you conceal from her are the ones you think will be a problem right?
You talk to girls online you say. Can you tell me ..hand on your heart...that the conversation doesnt sometimes get flirtatious? And it might be harmless fun to you, but if you have a girl in your life...she will never tolerate it. But it does beg the question..if the girl in your life really what you want if you need to go elsewhere to get a different kick from online females?
If something is genuinely innocent like walking a coworker home, then you have two options. Either dont tell your woman if you think she is going to go all ballistic on you. Her behavior shouldnt stop you from being chivalrous (again..I will reiterate..if your intention was honorable!). OR...you could have called her from work and told her.."honey I am going to be late.."Tina...Beena...Leena" is going home alone and I told her I would escort her home because its too dark for her to be alone". If you tell her, the girl automatically become a lesser threat (notice I didnt say a NON threat!)
I used to invite male workers home and asked my mom why she didnt mind. She replied "its not the ones you introduce I worry about, its the ones you dont!"
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What is so hard to understand? Is this rocket science or something? Just like men dont come with a manual...we dont either. If we can understand your need for a newspaper in the bathroom, sports (ew), male bonding, etc...why cant you understand PMS, relationships, manners, deodorants and romance?!?!
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places dunce cap on head I for one am an idiot when it comes to women. I understand women as human beings, that they have feelings and think etc. What I do not understand is women as women. I have been told my female friends, that I will never understand them. Which frankly is no small lose, but I hate being told I can't do something.
So lets begin the class. I will take situations where I supposedly messed up, but I have no freaking clue why.
Situation 1: A bunch of friends are planning on going for dinner. They call me and ask me if I want to come. I say sure let me see if "she" is also interested. I call her up and tell her the story. She responds with something along the lines of I just got home, had a rough day and i am not really interested in seeing those people.
I inquire about her day, she is not in the mood to talk, I say right I will head out to dinner myself, lets meet up tomorrow for brunch. Hang up and the next day I get the cold shoulder, rather for a week.
So what did i do wrong exactly? I
she wants your attention thats all. she also didnt like that you went out without her. :D
It seems that she wanted you to inquire further and ask her many times to go with you. some girls are like that. But hey! she will get over it soon.
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@ PS - ^ true ..and add these endless times when men try to make it look like its so difficult to understand women...