places dunce cap on head I for one am an idiot when it comes to women. I understand women as human beings, that they have feelings and think etc. What I do not understand is women as women. I have been told my female friends, that I will never understand them. Which frankly is no small lose, but I hate being told I can’t do something.
So lets begin the class. I will take situations where I supposedly messed up, but I have no freaking clue why.
Situation 1:
A bunch of friends are planning on going for dinner. They call me and ask me if I want to come. I say sure let me see if “she” is also interested. I call her up and tell her the story. She responds with something along the lines of I just got home, had a rough day and i am not really interested in seeing those people.
I inquire about her day, she is not in the mood to talk, I say right I will head out to dinner myself, lets meet up tomorrow for brunch. Hang up and the next day I get the cold shoulder, rather for a week.
CM - Your lessons could start with a concept that begins with a P, has an M in the middle, and ends with an S. That is pretty much where such complications arise.
mayb she just wanted to go out with u for lunch since she mentioned she dint want to se THOSE PPL.
is this SHE ur girlfrnd?? if so then mayb she got a bit tickd of by the fact dt u dint want to go out wid her for dinner.. just the two of u.. but went out wid THOSE PPL she wasn in da mood to meet......
jus a thought it all depends on who this SHE is to u. girl firnd? jus a frind? best frind? ?????
Well we were dating but this is a few years ago. Never understood what I did wrong. More details on the logic behind her thought process would be appreciated.
there u go....... so u wer dating her at the moment rite... so wudnt u wantd to b with her? go out and eat with her more den ur other frinds? wel thats hw a girl wud want it.... she'd want to see u n talk wid u aftr a long tiring day ...... she meant she wanted to spend time wid u sintead of those ppl. girls normaly want to be wid the man they love and share their feelings wid em openly. now if u guys went otu wid ur other firnds she wudnt b able to do all dt. she cant reli unwind . n since ud ve ur firnds around. neither of u cn give each oder ur undivided attention. n wen girls love/date a man they want their undivided attention sumtimes or amyb most of da time.... i think u fail to differntiat between girls as in a girl frnd n girl as in just a frind.
wen ur dating a girl u need to knw girls r sorta like kids. they like der man's attention.. n ur da peace providin equation in her tiring life. n from what i ve seen girls in relationships want to spend most of der free time wid der man instead of sharing him wid other ppl.
will reply again wen i get soem fuel in me i can think btr lol
Sounds to me like she wanted you to provide lots of sympathy for her "rough day" and then tell her that you'd much prefer to come over and comfort her and then take her out, just the two of you, to her favorite restaurant.
And why couldn't she just state that? Mind you this is a trait I have seen in Pakistani women a lot. They believe all men are like Prof. X and can read minds.
That is why I am say I am challenged when it comes to understanding women. Such illogical creatures....or I am just not getting it. Of course there was the issue with another girl that I was "involved" with that I once walked a female co-worker home.When she found out I got hit by a mac truck the size of Marlon Brando.
That is why I am say I am challenged when it comes to understanding women. Such illogical creatures....or I am just not getting it. Of course there was the issue with another girl that I was "involved" with that I once walked a female co-worker home.When she found out I got hit by a mac truck the size of Marlon Brando.
BAAAAAAAAD MOVE!!! So u had alone time with the other woman, a cosy chat on the way home with her.
Okay why is that a bad move? Why can't I walk a friend home and chat with her? Mind you I walked her home, said good bye at her apartment door and then head over to my place. All innocent.
Thanks Jaanwar. Frankly I need all the help I can get.
wel its a well knwn fact that women want u to knw wt they mean or wts on der mind without em telin u it . that how they relate u carin for /lovin em... if u knw hw shes feelin or wud want instinctively then she'd b elated. thats the trick some charmers ve masterd.... high time u learnt it to. cuz this goes for all women.
btw. how on earth do u plan on spendin the rest of ur life IF u marry a girl???women arent al dat confusin or diff u jus need to be around some to knw em. now if u dont bother to gt to knw da inner workings of a womens mind den ur in for some rough times buddy:P
well der u did act like a gentlmen .. dt was a nice thing to do actualy.. but desi women take it as an end to a date sorta thingy...... n dt u had some alone time wid her walkin on da streets... gives certain desi women cause to be jealous n suspect.... personaly.... dts a bit too much.i wudnt bo dat anal bout u walkin a frind or co worker home... mayb da issue is u pick da wrong women to date?
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most women arent that skeptical wen der man acts like a gentlmen n walks his co worker home......so think ur girl was very jelaous of ur co worker or over workin her mind dt sumthin might happen between u n the lady u walked home.
What women want and get are two very different things. I know for a fact I can't read minds. Let alone figure out what a woman is thinking. Now I forsee a lot of nights of being sent to the couch. What she doesn't know is I rather move into a hotel room than sleep on the couch!
And I beg to differ. Women are confusing as hell. Thanks for the explanation. I forsee a lot of trouble in my future....
Well we were dating but this is a few years ago. Never understood what I did wrong. More details on the logic behind her thought process would be appreciated.
She hates u're guts, doesn't like the way u look or smell.. doesn't like the way u pick u're nose during dinner either..
best of luck trying to understand them mate!