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yea yea…you jst know what you expect unconditional love to be (to ur advantage ofcoz) 
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AK ma nay tumara kia bigara hai ???
and its not rocket science just SIMPLE 2 WORDS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ,
you love some 1 UNCONDITIONALLY ,
reminds me of a song
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u sissy..I can’t blive u listen to backstreet boys
u ne mere saath panga lene ki khoshish kiya… 
that is alllllllllllllll 
and jst coz my cute elephant is not on the avi doesn’t mean u forget am baby E
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gosh now i'm curious too, which song of the backstreet boys did clad miyaan post that supposedly expresses unconditional love? the link he posted can't be viewed in the united states unfortunately
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gosh now i'm curious too, which song of the backstreet boys did clad miyaan post that supposedly expresses unconditional love? the link he posted can't be viewed in the united states unfortunately
I clicked on the link and there's no video. The song that comes to mind...which might reflect unconditional level....is "I don't care who you are, where you're from, what you did, as long as you love me....bla bla"
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^lol..... :) thanks, i haven't listened to them much lately.
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^LOL, haven't listened to em either....but the mention of it triggered high school flashback. I'm not even sure that's the song Clad has in mind...just a guess on my part.
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The video clad posted was “as long as you love me”
BSB durign high school :hinna:
I used to love themmmmmmmmmmmmm
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Only parents luv can be unconditional and nothing else. Unconditional to me is when you dont care what the other person is doing or not doing for you but you would give them your best even at the cost of your self.
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**Don’t know if it exists in real life but it exists in reel life
Luv you unconditionally Soniye 
**
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it cannot exist like said before b/c if there were no conditions like there will be no abuse then the two people in this unconditional love are insane or need to be committed for allowing such sadistic actions against them and still being 'in love'
why would someone that claims to love you hurt you....
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I think unconditional love between parents and children definitely exists. Not all parents obviously but a lot of them. I have seen cases where kids are horrible to their parents and their parents still love them and I've also seen cases where you know your child is a bad person and does bad things but the parent still loves them. They might by agree with the things they do and maybe even expect they should face the consequences for their actions but that doesn't mean they stop loving their child. I've seen tons of shows about murder trials and often when you hear things from a mothers point of view you realize that the murderer was at some point a human being too. Regardless of what the person has done to the mother he/ she is still the child that they loves and cared for all those years. And even if they wanted to stop loving their child for their errors I don't think they could
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first unconditional love is for allah and his rasool (saw) , second is parents, third is (spouses/kids)..., second and third is by blood and because they are your family who are there for ups and downs, now that doesn't mean their are no consequences for misbehavior and actions by them that would cause you not to love them anymore?? its about forgiveness and then moving on for the better of the relationship.
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^so if your wife was the type that was abusive, you would keep forgiving them each time they verbally or physically hurt you? how many times can you keep forgiving them though, when you look at those stories of women or even men that are in such relationships, most of the time, with the abusive person, it's a cycle, they get angry-get abusive-you forgive them-gifts-and again the anger-get abusive-you forgive. what happens if the behavior never gets recognized by the abuser and necessary steps to fix it aren't taken? what happens to that unconditional love
at what point does it become hopeless for any relationship
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^its not the majority of cases. The world is not perfect. There are situations where due to certain conditions that are not in one control and such things happen. However, there are law that govern for the abuse of domestic violence(in your example) and the added consequences of it.
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For those of you who do love 'unconditionally', would you still love this person if they murdered/raped someone in a moment of weakness?
If they were still the same person but killed someone in a horrific and cold-blooded way...
If this person stops loving you, would you still love them till your last moments?
Just stirring things up a little, but I do think love has conditions, especially once the couple is married. Love becomes dependent on looks,
money, the amount of attention you get and a lot of materialism. For the weak ones amongst us, i.e me even our love for Allah becomes
conditional astaghfir'ullah, I find myself angry when things don't go to my plan, when the dua I was making for a year didn't quite work out.
It's a horrific reality about me but then I think it's what being human is about.
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^so if your wife was the type that was abusive, you would keep forgiving them each time they verbally or physically hurt you? how many times can you keep forgiving them though, when you look at those stories of women or even men that are in such relationships, most of the time, with the abusive person, it's a cycle, they get angry-get abusive-you forgive them-gifts-and again the anger-get abusive-you forgive. what happens if the behavior never gets recognized by the abuser and necessary steps to fix it aren't taken? what happens to that unconditional love
at what point does it become hopeless for any relationship
Then the person doesn't have unconditional love for their spouse, they have self-hatred to continue to stay in that situation.
And abuser CLEARLY doesn't.
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only mother for her child.
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unconditional love DOES NOT exist... it is a mere attraction that can die out over time. It is natural for a man to be attracted to woman and other way around but to say i am falling in love and I'll do anything for that person is pure BS. There is nothing called love for another stranger, it is mere attractivness and the desire that pulls you towards that person but alike other material things in the world, it dies out... which is when you grow into cranky old husband and wife. So called love only exists in movies and fairy tales and those who call it as such are trying to recreate imaginary fairy tale or watch too many movies.