UK Chicks

[Paheli00]

Re: UK Chicks

@tubelight

Being less smart, having small boobs, small, height, black skin, genetic problems are something you are given with & there is nothing you can do about that while on the other hand depression, pregnancy is something temporary. People work on themselves & get back in shape. This is something you can reduce & have in your control.

Oh yea…what specific experience with depression and pregnancy leads you to make the above comments? Have you ever been sevenely depressed to the point where you needed professional help? Have you ever been so depressed and hated yourself so much that you attempted suicide or resorted to cutting yourself? Have you ever been pregnant and tried losing that weight after having a baby?

Can it be done? Sure. But unless you’ve done it yourself personally, you have no idea how difficult it is and you have no idea what others are going through. When you see a fat person on the street, don’t assume that you know what they’ve been through in the life and what they’re going through currently.

@AnnaKarenina

I come from a medical background so don’t need to be educated on the factors behind weight gain.

No but you definitely need to be educated on how to practice humility and compassion. But oh well…one can lead a horse to water and can’t force the horse to drink it. :hinna: