Ugly at heart

I am so sad for my friend. I was just talking to a friend of mine and she told me she went to lunch with someone, after 5 mins the guy went to the bathroom and then never came back, after 15 mins of waiting she called at his celli he told her is wasn’t gonna work out and that he was already on his way home.

And then she asked me “Am I that ugly”?
Gosh that just broke my heart. How could that jerk do this to her, she is so fortunate looking and has a great personality. I felt so bad when she asked me that question at first I was speechless, I was still thinking about what the hell that guy did to her. That was way too mean. If I knew him I would kick his arse. Tsk! Sigh, I feel so sorry, why would someone do something like that.

She is not ugly, he is the one whos ugly at heart.

Don’t be sad sweetie. What goes around comes around, just don’t stress over it. I am sure he isn’t worth the pain. Feel better; I luv you, muah.

PS: Girls don’t ever waste your time on such A holes, its not healthy for you, men are dogs and nothing can be done about it. I say stay happy and have fun with your friends and family. Stressing over a guy or I-am-single-so-I-need-a-boyfriend sh*t is just not the way to go. There are other special people in life who truely love you, your mom, dad, siblings and so many others :slight_smile:

Damn, that's a pretty mean thing to do.

Guys just sux!

Its not just mean its horrible!

I agree Maj, "men are dogs". Gosh! Arggggh I am so mad at that stupid mofo.

LK, that guy was a jerk. Tell your friend that she should be happy that she actually never get to know the guy otherwise it'd have hurt her real bad.

It's actually a good thing that he left that way. She didn't have to waste time on him.

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Guys just sux!
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Majestic dearie, yes they do. Do us guys and yourself a favor and turn into a lesbian.

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LK, that guy was a jerk. Tell your friend that she should be happy that she actually never get to know the guy otherwise it'd have hurt her real bad.

It's actually a good thing that he left that way. She didn't have to waste time on him.
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Thats a good point you make, but how can I make her feel good about herself now. She is convinced now that she is ugly or something. I mean whatever I say I can't make her feel happy about herself.

Tell her she has a wonderful personality

thats really messed up...if he didnt like her looks he could have still be friends with her...every guy/gal meeting doesnt have to end up in a relationship

LK, simple see baat hai. She's looking at herself with that guy's eyes, and of course she would feel down. But if that guy was a gentleman, he would have not behaved the way he did. Which means that that guy's perception of people is flawed and shallow. So if she's taking his perception and looking at herself then she's being shallow about herself, and her perception of herself is flawed.

She doesn't need to change the way she looks, talks, or behave. She needs to change her perception of herself.

I've had a friend do it to a guy and we laughed about it for days.. erm.. I guess it's not so nice after all.

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I've had a friend do it to a guy and we laughed about it for days.. erm.. I guess it's not so nice after all.
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Tsk tsk tsk!

OH and ROMAN unkil its LM not LK :mad:, keyboard theek karao :smiley:

As a rule of thumb, if a guy does it then he's a jerk, if a woman does it, she is a bitch.

LM, it hurts when you call me unkil. :(

Well, on a second thought though, keep sayin' it. It's kinda kinky ;-)

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I've had a friend do it to a guy and we laughed about it for days.. erm.. I guess it's not so nice after all.
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What so funny about that?

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LM, it hurts when you call me unkil. :(

Well, on a second thought though, keep sayin' it. It's kinda kinky ;-)
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Thats why they call me Kinky Roshiky...

Oho now we're having irrational interpersonal communication please focus on my poor heart broken friend.

Array bhaee aap apni friend ko mujh say introduce karwa deiN. MeiN unn say payari payari baateiN kar kay unn ka dil bahla dooN ga. Promise.

If the guy turns out to be a moron then the girl doesn't end up being a bitch for walking out on him.

belle, it wasn't funny but she's a super nice person and it wasn't something you'd expect her to do.

The two situations are completely different, in this case, the guy left because of how the girl looked, and that's as shallow as anyone can get.

If the guy turns out to be a moron then the girl doesn't end up being a bitch for walking out on him.

That's true. But aap to aisay flaunt kar rahee theiN jaisay girl left in similar way they guy left in LM's friend's case. Thori men hater lagtee heiN aap waisay mujhay verna explaination dee hotee pehlay say hee.