So tell me, do you guys ever have feel ugly days? Look in the mirror and wish you could change just about everything about yourself. I don’t know why i have these phases, if someone tells me i look good then i’ll feel pretty for a couple of mins n then it’s back to the same thing. I always end up glancing at myself in mirrors, catching my reflection on shop windows ..just checking myself if i look like a freak or presentable..from my walk to my hair to my spots to my eyes i just find myself vile :sigh:. When i meet people i hate people looking at me cuz it makes me paranoid that they’re assessing the ugliness or thinking how bad r her spots? eek see her hair? you know what i mean. And i don’t think it helps when others begin to criticise me…you should go to the Drs about your spots..you should try so and so on your hair…you should wear these kinda clothes..invest in this..as if life wasn’t tuff enough
Siggggggggggggggghhhh. It’s so hard being happy with what you got.
Yaar I understand what you mean, people can be a pain in the neck. But people like that are not worth it. If I felt like that everytime someone hurt me, man I could have never been through life now. I hate people that judge someone on looks, status, money and all.
you see that's y i hate getting up early in the morning and going for a mile run. I get back and I'm so tired, don't even feel like drinking milk shake. Then it's off to the daily routine and going to sleep at night. Ugliness, I'm tellin' you.
be happy with what u got.. mashallah se ure a tall pretty girl with a great smile.. yea i saw the pic.. its all bout the confidence.. i was watchin this show on MTV called true life and they were showing life of a dwarf and i was amazed that despite that ppl were dwarfs and they had a harder time doing things that are easy for us.. like jus opening a door.. for them its strenous.. for us its jus a door or something liek getting a cup outta the cabinet.. and they are confident.. if they can be so can we be.. thank allah for the flaws that u dont have ... now smile!!!!
I think its worse when I have those "I feel pretty" days. Either way, whatever attitude you take, someones going to comment on it. I can handle "I feel ookie" days, but those "I feel pretty" days...after the day is over I feel like blah for having such an air.
i know what u mean, i often have those phases especially before my “time of the month”,
i hate having those phases because u feel so nasty and u feel like u should have never left the house…
yeh sometimes.. but i dont pay attention much..i guess i don’t care much but when i do then i notice
be happy wid what u got
and yeh i get so nervous when ppl look at me..not cuz of my looks or anything..ish jus looking at me in general!
im like “why in da world are they looking at ME for!” arughhhhh i jus HATE it!
sum ppl in my school do that every day:crying:
LOOK SOMEWHERE ELSE FOR GOD SAKE!
salam,hi,
DD,yaar,phulease…u r like sooo beautiful(i dont say that to alot of ppl) but seriously,u got a lovely warm smile(luv that)n beautiful eyes n gorgeous hair,wht else do you want woman???
loads of love:kiss:
pk.
(this was meant to be sent as a pm,but as ur pm box is full:smash:i just pasted it here:D)
That's so strange Duck, I feel exactly the same way about myself. I wish I could change a few things, if not most about myself. Sometimes I don't feel like going out of the house or getting our of bed because of the way I look.
I've never seen your pic but I'm sure you're overreacting! :-)
But as my friend's mum says, "pretty is as pretty does", meaning if your personality sucks, then what's the point of being attractive?
Don't feel bad. I think it is very normal for women to be over-critical of themselves. I mean, how can we not in the society we live in where the media bombards us images of their perception of beauty that the majority of women can never aspire to?
When it comes to looks, a lot of women have insecurities. You just have to learn to accept yourself the way you are.
Anyway, you know why people look at you? Cause they are admiring you! Trust me, that is how it goes. Women are always measuring up other women.....they stare when they think they have competition! :)
You should take that as a compliment when people stare at you. :)
