uff my mother in law

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Re: uff my mother in law

@nadz123

hmm, maybe, i dono man. I do want to just go back, i dont like his mother. he does annoy me at times, yes hes a decent husband blah blah, but i think i deserve to be happy atleast much of the time. he promised he would support me fully, he knws it hard to adjust. so why cant we go out eat alone? why is his mum the way she is, we have no income now and he doesnt seem to be motivated to look actively for a job, he applies to like 3 jobs a week. and thats it. his mum then puts ideas into his head for bringing my daughter to her daughters wedding, even though il be in uk, so somehow i feel shes planning something and planting ideas. i cant even go out for a walk, i wenty out yesterday with my khala for shopping, the amount of questions his mum asked…ufff, jeez, she obviously didnt like it. and today shes gone shopping with her daughter, and when my FIL ( WHOSE LOVELY ) asked me if i wanted to go too, mil butted in and said nahii yeh to nahi jaygei, …ive been excluded from day one, moaned about from day one, bithced about from day one, even though in the beginning i tried my best.

naturally when u take someone from uk tp pak, you would atleast take them out,let them see any nice things in pak, just out. i havent been out ( apart from gorcery shopping here and there) once, since march. while in uk, yes i could go out anytime every day. they expect that i should be grateful or something, for being here and if i aint happy well i can go back if i want. but its not as if he would come with me,if i went back just cos i dnt like the fact that i cant go out here, u dnt take me out, …itl all sound trivial.

just a personal question? are you pakhtoon/pathan?