Re: typical desi problem !! solutions ?
I am not sure what do you exactly mean by the first part but still..it was quite obvious to them that there are only two people living in the lower portion of the house ( it is a big house, over 1 kanal with 6 bedrooms, i dont know how do you calculate in sq. ft ) and they even had seen around the place with intention of arranging for jahaiz which my parents were totally against since the house is fully furnished already but they said it is ‘khushi’ of their daughter and they arranged the bedroom furniture according to the current room of my brother which makes it quite clear that though not discussed in words,they knew where she is going to live once she is here ( i dont know if there has to be any such discussion because my ILs are basically not from the same city and are from a small village but my husband works here still I and my parents knew that I will be living wherever my husband / his family lives because if it was really an issue for me, i would have stated clearly prior to marriage, isnt this what happens unless demanded by the parents of the girl ?? or maybe this is what happens in Pakistan that it is known that she will stay with the family when you are finding a match for a guy with family ? unless the guy is working abroad and parents have concerns if their daughter will be moving with the guy or staying back ?)
she has just graduated few months back and didnt start working until shadi and has joined her housejob with her regular session with her own will and there have been no delays due to any reason in that.