I know a girl who was with a guy for about a year and they really hit it off well and really were like in love and stuff. His brother knew about her cuz they went to the same school and stuff so the three of them would often hang out and just spend time sorta like she was the bhabhi already. The boy’s mother hated the girl, ande the boy’s father loved her. Somehow things just went downhill when the parents decided to get her boyfriend married to a cousin from the mother’s side… he fought very hard, but the girl’s parents didnt wanna get their daughter forcefully married into a family that was having such a hard time accepting her. So it didnt work out. She stayed in touch with the brother though through school and stuff, and now she thinks she’s got feelings for him… he’s already told her that he does.
What do you guys think of this? The first brother is happily married now with a baby on the way and probably couldnt care less… but I doubt the parents of the boy would accept this all again, especially when they’ve been through it before with their older son and her. What do you guys make of the situation? Wrong on all levels, worth a shot… capable of being a long-term commitemnt leading to marriage?
well its more like she is planning to take revenge from their mother.
i dont think she should marry there cuz she will destroy her life in this revenge-hate thingee.
she is better off if she stays herself away from this family. i do know that its sometimes gets hard for us gals to accept that not everyone gonna like us.
i am thinking about the brother's wife, if this girl was to get married to the guy, how will the ex's wife ever be comfortable knowing this is the woman her husband used to love and fought with his family for. i think more than anyone else in the family, it would be the worst for her.
That would be such an uncomfortable situation for everyone involved. Can you imagine family get togethers etc? Is she really prepared to take on the mother again? Also if somehow she does end up married to the younger brother will she be able to cope with the everyday dramas? People don't change - or atleast very few do. So what are the chances that teh mother will become all loving and caring?Marriage is not easy at the best of times so why make it even more complicated?
Yeah, i think she should stay well away… it will be too weird… she’s projecting her affection for the first guy onto his brother now… recipe for disaster
I guess now GS has matured enough to have these thread.
One of my dude did one sister…next sister, and also ::you guessed it… lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
I swear.
I wish all 3 of them where member of GS, telling “emotional” experience.
tell her to stay away....the guy should have more sense too then to start this nonsense. Does he think that he HE would get his mother to agree...aside from everything else? she is the same girl....why is she even considering that?
How does she expect to be accepted? How does she think the parents will view her? They will think very disrespectfully of her and I wouldnt blame them...they just cant seem to get rid of her now can they?
She needs to stop passing out her heart like its free candy and be more selective about the people she chooses to be with.
LOL funny situation tell her to stay away. I know of people where a girl was going out with a guy but ended up marrying the guys brother instead. Then they had problems, got divorced and the woman went back to the first brother she was with and got married to him. It's very disturbing.
