Re: 'tum' yaa 'aap'
Nah....he definitely was not from India.
His name is Farhan and I'm still ticked about it. I didn't realize it bothered me this much.
If he's not a native urdu speaker then he most definitely is a punjabi speaker. Regardless though, I have been to most desi places in Toronto and nobody, but nobody has ever spoken to me that way.