Tum vs Aap

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Re: Tum vs Aap

@Jolie

So all the great readers and speakers of Urdu language, any advice on what could be the third of of addressing someone (apart from addressing them by their name) if tum or aap isn’t the option. Any stylistic device? Any linguistic trick or trip to break the ice?

That is a dilemma.

But I don’t think there is any equal substitute.