Re: Tum rotee howee achee legtee ho
Okay, I used to imagine crap like that too. Reality is, that if he's not getting in touch with you and telling you what you think he's thinking, then chances are, he ain't thinking it.
Re: Tum rotee howee achee legtee ho
ba-khuda it is real. it is his mess. he must straighten it out. if he recalls that he was and is true to me. i come to work as a zombie, go back, and then weep, until i fall asleep by valiums. as a friend, i fasted for him and his success, when he was giving his board exam. he shared his child hood pictures with me, saying he only shared them with me. he was never disrespectful to me, that is one thing i am thankful to him for. he lacks confidence & his current frustration in his muteness is showing this, unless i am so naive and not realizing who he really is. then WHY he could not follow through with the proposal? my sleep, diet and peace - i have given away as a gift to him. it is not at all comfortable to share something like this, for an unmarried young adult, educated, & self respecting professional woman, to share this at GS. i trust most of you and your support is thankfully replied with prayers that this may never ever happen to any of you.
however, my reason for sharing this is to identify this pattern in relationships, & prevent other young women from taking someone to be true.
if they say, they respect you and want to marry you - do that right away. in the mean time, DO not talk at all to them. -not give them any attention -not believe them -not listen to their sad stories -not love nor expect in return true love.
Do keep in check your own innocent eagerness to not lose them -to be their friend UNLESS, such men realize that they are wrong and they openly come back, and accept their mistake and are worthy of marrying you.
the fine line i am walking on, right now is between forgetting and never forgiving. i would rather forget it all, not have anything to forgive, & simply have him back, if he can return with a pure heart and a clear mind.
dushwari
i hope u feel better il pray that everythin works out da best 4 u