aww Confi For male partner, they do the semen analysis first. I know its a weird test. When i told my hubby what the doc wants (that he gets checked too), he was a little hesitant at first, like ke abhi time hi kitna huwa hai, is it important and i dint force him. But when he looked at me, tests that i had to go through, lots of blood tests, ultrasounds and HSG, he himself one day told me that i have taken the appointment for SA. So yes its an awkward test and guys might be hesitant at first, but its worth it as it also helps in deciding the next course of action. Best of luck dear!