yelling & fighting is not part of married life, arguing with respect is, period.
but i am a guy and if i am working my ass off to put food on the table i need a bit of appreciation and also if i vent some time definitely because of work stress or other issues. forgive, and again forgive.
most of the times ladies on GS just amazed me by their logic oh my husband say this so i don’t want to have kids, have mercy on yourself.