its been 7 months iv got married but we didnt want baby. im always superstitious so didnt use any kind of contraceptive medicines only my husband used the prevention
Now we want to try iv read much about the ovulation and specific days and next week would be the right time for me
the thing which fears me is we have delayed 1st preg for like 7 months so would i be able to conceive the very first time we try??? need advice from a doc or specialist in this regard
cz i know myself if i wont that wud be very frustrating for me as my hubby will be leaving for abroad in May so i have only 2 months to try
So i need best wishes and prayers of u all, hope all goes fine
you dont need to stress yet. its your first kid... first time ttc... enjoy it.. its mean to be fun... leave that bit for later if god forbid you cant concieve...
putting off a child by preventing pregnancy doesnt mean that whne you are ttc, it wont be fast. that depends on your own body.
who knows.. maybe you could have started immediately but still wouldnt be pregnant? you cant think like that ok .
we started to plan a family 1.5 yrs after marriage and i got pregnant immediately... it all comes down to your body.. nothing else. oh and doint it at the right time... which for you guys should be all the time ... thats the best way to get pregnant... sperm lives in you for 3 days... so you can have sex accordingly. and now you know when you are ovulating so its even more easier.
just enjoy the fun and dont stress unecessarily. stress isnt a friend of the sperm :)
it takes the average, healthy couple up to a year to conceive, so if you don't get pregnant right away, no need to worry! take your time and it'll happen when its meant to :)
Plus on average a couple has about 20-25% of conceiving in a particular cycle. So dont fret if it doesnt happen right away in the first month, and dont fret if it takes several months, that doesnt mean there is necessarily something the matter with either of you. Its natural for these things to take some time and if you are going to start worrying from now before you have even started TTC, then you will not be making things any easier for yourself! Just relax, make dua and keep a positive attitude! Inshallah Allah will make it happen for you when the time is right!
we conceived after 1.5 yr of trying. it will happen when its meant to be, stressing yourself will only decrease your chances. best of luck. and there is this "dua of Zakarya" which a lot of ppl suggested to me.
Well as the week is over now when can i get the result by home preg test, i know i need to wait till my next cycle starts but im just too much curious to know whether it worked or not
n thanx Qiynat ill get the dua
*Rabbi hab lii mil-ladunka zurriyyatan tayyibah 'innaka samii-'ud-du'aa'
My Rabb! give me from Yourself a pure offspring. You are indeed Hearer of prayer. (3:37)
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History and Significance
Prophet Zakariya made this supplication as mentioned in Surah Al-e-Imran. Zakariya was guardian of Maryam. When Maryam grew up in purity and devoutness, Zakariya longed for such a child for himself - a child who would be as pure, virtuous and honorable as Maryam. In the following verse, 3:38, malaks brought the glad tidings of Yahya, "a noble and a chaste man, and a nabi from among the righteous". Note the emphasis at the end of the supplication that Allah is "indeed Hearer of prayer". Do we need any other kind of reassurance?
hey hi,
glad to see there is someone out there like me..iv been married for almost 9 months now,couldnt think of having kids straight away due to my work n stuff,but now im planning to start..infact this time half way thru my cycle i decided i want kids now..so we hv started to try..i know it can take upto a yr to get pregnant but the thing is that i cant wait..if it doesnt happen in a month or 2 i'l get frustrated and ill def go mad..so i can understand what ur going thru..
just hope it goes all well for all the people trying..
but yeah what i have read is that u can increase ur chances by finding out ur most fertile days,by specific positions etc..go to the site "what to expect when expecting" it has an ovulation calculator..give it a try..n i think u just need to take it easy..
do pray for me too..
i checked my ovulation dates thru 2 websites and was very much confident that if i do as per these dates i will conceive but it has not happened
i am seriously thinking to c a doc but im way too shy to do that as this would be my first ever experience to c a gyn doc
i am pregnant after trying for 2 months i conceived in the 3rd month ... i did not use any medication, track of ovulation dates, special techniques or myths in the third month (whereas i was very concious in the first two)
i think its more to do with Allah (swt) blessing and not just medication and techniques and i am blessed
^exactly!! we were blessed the month I didnt even expect it to happen! I thought I was over and done with trying and was going to take a break for my own sanity.. lo n behold there was a big fat positive!!
Congrats! Three months is actually how long it takes for up to 60% of couples to conceive. It's as if three months is the magic number!! haha It took me three months too and countless other people I know!
