true diwana, but there are women who are widowed or divorced multiple times, or someone who is raped.
the point is that it whichever context the words like try, used, second hand etc type of words reduce women to objects, and thus we should be careful in how we convey our thoughts.
That is what i was pointing out. as I said, I dont have much of an issue with what he is trying to say, but the way it is delivered. just something to think about, but lets not have that divert the focus of the thread.