Trusting maids with your kids?

Sahar I don't think you get trained nannies in Pakistan. Usually grannys in joint family system provide a helping hand.
I always find it very strange when an educated and very modern housewife hire a preteen girl to take care of her toddler. I mean the help is often time barely ouuta dipers.
There is nothing wrong with leaving your kids at child center or with individual babysitter if you are a working parent though.