Re: Trust …?
He might have become bored but just cos he’s abroad doesn’t mean he found someone else…
How long have they been long distance, the whole 7 yrs or just recently?
Long distance relationships are difficult, believe me i know and some work out while others don’t…if they have just moved away from each other in distance then it will be hard in the start of course…however, if they have been having a long distance relationship for some time now then there obviously are some deeper problems if he wants to end it after 7 YEARS! That’s a long time…
I don’t think the guy is irresponsible i mean he too has invested in 7 yrs…he maybe feeling insecure…imagine u are away from ur loved one and u hear rumours, ok yea u wana believe them n all that but maybe a small part of u is worried u know…if he wants to leave her then he actually has an okay excuse, it’ hard to know wot is true and wot isn’t when ur not even there…hey, sometimes when ur not even far apart u can’t tell if someone is faithful or not…it’s a test of how strong ur relationship is really…
Every relationship has it’s ups and downs…maybe they can work it out, i don’t know…but for now, if he wants to leave her and he told her this point blank, then i think she has no choice but to let him go…but perhaps all he needs is some space, a break, to clear his head and wot not…some time to think about wot he wants from this relationship…and if it’s meant to be, then Inshallah they can get past this and be happy…otherwise, she’s gona have to be strong and move on by herself, and she’ll find happiness elsewhere…i hope it gets better for ur friend…