Well a friend (girl) of mine is having a real bad time these days. First let me tell you that she is a doctor and a girl with a very good character. She fought with a friend of hers and her friend spread so many rumors about her. Later on she was accused of so many horrible things by her Professor in the hospital. She was even accused of sleeping with another medical officer :S
Poor girl, she used to be very weak and sensitive 
and the worse was yet to come
She likes someone for the last 7 years. He’s abroad now. She discussed it with him and that guy didn’t believed her. He said there must’ve been something that all these people accuse you. And he wants to end this relationship. They haven’t talked to each other in 2 weeks.
She asked me for advice and I thought I’d discuss it with you guys too
What do you say ? what should she do ?
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Leave the guy. Forget about him.
If he believes the rumors about her then he is no good for her.
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Poor girl...he should've been the one supporting her the most and instead he didn't trust her
She feels weak to take this step...ending a 7 year old relationship is not that easy ..especially for girls in pakistan
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I advise her to remain steadfast. She should not discuss this anymore with her friend. Only time will solve her problems so she has got to be patient.
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leave him, its better for her to waste 7 yrs then the rest of her life
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u talking about that sabz aankhouN walli??
if she really wana marry him or something, ask her to do istikhara…that should solve the problem!
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what good will that do if he doesnt want to be with her
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larki ko tassali ho jaye gi!
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And this is happening in a medical establishment??
Where has proffessionalism gone?
She ought to perhaps discuss this matter with other professors - anyone she trusts, so that a stop can be put to this. If a public meeting needs to be called to sort things out and give a nice lecture to the workers of the establishment to behave, then so be it.
She ought to present her case to the higher-ups, and if even the higher-ups of the medical establishment are against her, she ought to leave and join another establishment. Their loss that they lose a doctor. And if she wants, she can spread hell in the media as well.
But then of course, its Pakistan. Too many people would take up the opportunity to make life worse for her.
As for the guy she's in a relationship with ... how strong is that relationship if he doubts her?
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Sajal is right...If the guy can't trust her word despite her telling him the truth then it is best she looks for someone who does...
If she does get married to him and he still mistrusts her, then it'll be a bad relationship...
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yeah shez the one…Good idea…I’ll surely tell her..thanks
PCG :
its pakistan It would do more hard than good. I told her to resign but as she has only one month left of her house job, she is staying and facing all this…poor girl…because the same professor would be issuing her experience certificate
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People think, if there's smoke, there's fire. Unfortunately, what a lot of people don't understand is, if a story is repeated often enough, others start believing it. When one story is created, more stories follow to make it even worse.
Poor girl. May Allah give her strength in these hard times. And yes, if the guy doesn't trust her, it's no use. Trust is the foundation of any relationship.
She should never loose herself, she knows what she is like, she knows the truth and Allah knows it too. Now she will discover true mentality of some people, she will find out who really is her friend and who is just a so-called friend.
Tell her to stay strong and be patient no matter how hard it is sometimes.
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I feel very sorry for ya friend what happend to her, and also sad that the guy who
she like dont trust/beliefs her. Coz pple like to gossip or tell rumors around.
What shud she do i think leave it that way coz that dude dont belief her what she
told him. She will find a better one ;)
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i was jut gonna say that! She is better off with a friend like you then a "boyfriend" like that
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^^ Y eh sun kar SAC ki EID ho gayee 
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:D
but seriously yar...koi itna zada acha ho..and uskey sath utna hi zada bura hey..its too much
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^^isn’t that like a universal law…
achay k sath hamesha bura karo. 