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tubhi mai burri houn, meray saath acha hi houtta hai phir :D
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^^ abhi kuch acha nahi lag raha...I feel so devastated...the scenes they are showing on tv are so horrible :S
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Best she report it to the professors about the rumours and hows it affecting her
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It is definitely a big step to end a 7 year relationship but it seems like in this case it is best for her. If this guy doesn't trust her right now then he might bother her by ridiculing her and reminding her about this incident after marriage. She seems like a very nice girl and would probably end up suffering through his abuse after marriage. It is better to stop the abuse cycle now when it has just started. She would have to be extremely strong because in Pak people will blame her for being "bad chalan" and whatnot because she is ending the relationship and it would seem like to our wonderful Pak brethren that there was some truth to the rumors. But it is best for her it seems. I hope she finds someone who is equally good to her because it seems like she deserves it! May Allah swt help her through this ordeal - Ameen.
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I doubt he will marry her. I think he got bored of the 7 years relationship.
PLus he is abroad and prolly found someone else there.
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So friggin irresponsible. Why promise someone for 7 years, and then bail out with some lame excuse?
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He might have become bored but just cos he’s abroad doesn’t mean he found someone else…
How long have they been long distance, the whole 7 yrs or just recently?
Long distance relationships are difficult, believe me i know and some work out while others don’t…if they have just moved away from each other in distance then it will be hard in the start of course…however, if they have been having a long distance relationship for some time now then there obviously are some deeper problems if he wants to end it after 7 YEARS! That’s a long time…
I don’t think the guy is irresponsible i mean he too has invested in 7 yrs…he maybe feeling insecure…imagine u are away from ur loved one and u hear rumours, ok yea u wana believe them n all that but maybe a small part of u is worried u know…if he wants to leave her then he actually has an okay excuse, it’ hard to know wot is true and wot isn’t when ur not even there…hey, sometimes when ur not even far apart u can’t tell if someone is faithful or not…it’s a test of how strong ur relationship is really…
Every relationship has it’s ups and downs…maybe they can work it out, i don’t know…but for now, if he wants to leave her and he told her this point blank, then i think she has no choice but to let him go…but perhaps all he needs is some space, a break, to clear his head and wot not…some time to think about wot he wants from this relationship…and if it’s meant to be, then Inshallah they can get past this and be happy…otherwise, she’s gona have to be strong and move on by herself, and she’ll find happiness elsewhere…i hope it gets better for ur friend…
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^^true that.