awwww… treat friends as time pass yaar, no expectations and don’t be too nice, also don’t get too close to anyone except your own family… thats my motto.
I have 6-7 female friends here (around where I live) but I’m no way close to them… we just meet up once or twice a month when we have time (with families) but its not like I’ll share my frustrations with life or personal issues with them… buss time pass hai, social chit chat and hansee mazaq. We meet them whenever its convenient for us and them.
But wait, I do have one friend at work who I share all my feelings with, she finds out through my moods anyways since we share a cubicle, so whenever I’m frustrated about something or she is, we just rant and let it all out in front of each other… it works out pretty well 
I keep it all to myself and she does the same, since we don’t share any social circles… no fear of gossip leaking out :p.