It’s really hard to deal with females. One day they are your best friend and the next day they hate you. I swear women can be worse than men. Yes you do have to be confident and independent, but its hard to not have a social life. It’s hard to keep a social life when you keep running into the situation and losing friends…
^True, I agree. Men seem to be better at maintaining friends. **And that’s what I meant when I say that as you grow older…you realize that they are very few people that you would consider to be “really good friends”. The kind of people that you can trust…that sincerely care about you…that have your back…that are honest…that wish well for you…that don’t disappear in your time of need. As you grow older…you notice that you can’t even trust relatives such as cousins. Things like jealousy and competition get in the way. But yes, a social life is necessary for well being. A variety of diseases can be prevented with a healthy social life. And that doesn’t mean that you should depend so heavily on one or two people. You can meet people in a variety of places…in a variety of ways. I’ve seen fair-weather “friends.” I’ve even seen “friends” that are self-centered and don’t respect you. Some of them disappeared…some of the I chose to ditch myself. But over time, I think I’ve grown a stronger skin. If you don’t want to talk to me…fine. You’re not obligated to. I know that I have other people in my life that sincerely care about me.
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… I dont know if this made any sense…
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Yes, it made sense.**