Re: Tough situation
Let me clarify here: The girl in question is of Albanian background, Muslim yes, but only by name. Hardly practices religion or follows it even. The same is with her parents. But the whole out of wedlock kid would still come as a big shock and disgrace to her family. So the abortion thing can be considered as they dont really follow Islam much anyways. I have spoken to her and advised her to tell her grandmother as soon as possible all the while trying to at least contact or inform the father of the baby (her ex bf). She is unwilling to even consider giving the child up and as of this moment is thinking of giving birth to the baby and having her grandmother take the baby and go raise it in Albania for the first couple of years. She is hoping that her parents will accept this decision and allow her to continue to stay in their home and finish up her education. Once she's done with that, she plans on bringing the baby back here or going there herself.
There is no plan b in case things dont go the way she has assumed in her mind.
Lets hope for her sake and the baby's that the family is willing to help her out and support her.