it all start when that young little princess start to adopt westren lifestyle and parents are so proud of with the 'oh humari behti tu belkol gori lag rahi hai" statement. They let them wear whatever type of cloths they want to wear and have any type of frds they want to have
K I am not totally against the idea of wearing western dress but I modify it into wat Islamic teachings tell us.
Nxt step comes friends… some parents don’t mind if their young daughter is socializing with girls who are from different religion (the only thing that worries me is that kids don’t know much abt their religion so when they are friends with Christian or Sikh they start to adopt to certain habits that are unislamic.
Then they start to go frinds’ parties and start to go out with those friends. Then these girls who are not Muslim and are given totally different values. They do date guys and have guy friends. They start to ask questions to those Muslim friends that why don’t u have a bf and some start to play with their mind by telling them that so and so is I think into u…. I think he loves u…. and that young girl is so influenced by these girls that she doesn’t care a bit about her own values. She knows its wrong that’s why she hides it from her parents…. Once she is a little older she starts to date these guys…. Some family don’t mind their daughters to have guy friends so when they are infatuated by some guy she openly starts to date…. Parents think they are friends or maybe they both gona marry later on but these girls fall into this trap.
And then we get this situation.
I don’t have any sympathy for this girl. She asked for it and she got.
But after taking all the wrong steps yet she is taking another wrong decision.
And what exactly this grandma is doing by supporting her. What kind of well wisher would want her to take another wrong step.
she is preparing herself for a bigger disaster .......
I don’t think option for aborting is there as its not allowed in islam unless her own health is in danger.
Yeh she has committed a sin but she can’t undo it with another sin by aborting.
The only option I see is that she needs to tell her parents what had happened and she needs to find out the guy who was involved in the act with her. That is the only option she has.
Once she finds him she needs to get married to him.
Even if she go ahead with the idea of raising the kid on her own and with her grandma’s help who is willing to support her financially. But she needs to think that our society and our religion doesn’t accept it.
That kid will never be accepted in the society. Think about the poor soul why she wants him to go through so much pain. Once he finds out that he wasn’t legitimate child how he is gona feel….. wat if she has a girl. What is she gona do then. how is she gona marry her off?
Unless she decides to raise the kid with all the westren values and then he'll give a damn abt being legitimate or illegitimate but then do remind her that a kid who is brought up with westren values doesnt also give a damn abt parents once they are 18. Do show her that side of the picture too....
I don’t see any kind of satisfaction and happiness in her future……instead of telling her that she can get all the love she want from this child and she'll be very happy with him/her ... show her the real picture.