Re: :)
The guy wasn't creepy - she was approached in a decent manner, that shows he tried not to offend her. She could've gave the # as long as her first impression of him was positive and then upon further communication decide if he's a jerk or not. Also, I'm pretty sure they had some type of conversation before the guy asked? If this is happening in North America/Europe, then it's understandable and happens all the time. If they are at an event it's not like the guy will have hours to stay and talk to her. Perhaps he thought she was interesting/pretty/different and figured he wanted to GET TO KNOW her. Isn't that what OP wants? I don't mean to bash the girl and I understand she doesn't want to be portrayed in a certain way but if you don't at least give SOME guys a chance then might as well just stick to meeting someone through a rishta. It's up to you to get to know and learn more about them, instead of being* judgemental* and scrutinize every little thing.
When I first met the love of my life, I thought he was a jerk but I turned out to be so very wrong - people can surprise you. Now that I think about it, not giving him a chance would've been the biggest mistake of my life. So the point of this post is that to find THE ONE, you have to take a leap of faith. :)