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The alternative is that he should sell his home and move in to her neighborhood, enroll in her college or get a job where she works.

Then, the next step would be to become part of her social circle. He needs to become her ‘friend first’… make her like him as a friend first. He should start hanging out with her circle of friends; share common activities etc.

Then he should begin the never ending, elusive process to impress her with his redeeming qualities, persuade her, prove himself to her and win her heart because afterall she needs to like him as a human being first. Care must be taken to conceal the real motives at this stage as this would be very selfish on his part and obviously hurt the sensitivities of the woman.

He should proceed very slowly; very carefully. Finally when the time is right he should ‘propose’ to her in a very formal manner. This could take atleast 2 years.