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So she will give her number to any Tom, Dick or Harry and then decide how far she wants to go with him? I sure wouldn’t want to even date such a girl.

If expressing my thoughts makes me patronising then I am all for it.

Walking up to a girl and asking her straight up “can I have your number”, doesn’t seem like very imaginative or creative to me. Maybe the guys not approaching aren’t interested or don’t want to come across as jerks, or maybe have a better opinion of the girl.