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Reha · June 28, 2013, 4:59am

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Ok you go to some event & a guy gets interested in you. He comes to you at the end of that event & asks for your number. That girl did not give her number to that guy because to her giving your number to total strangers who you don’t even know is not a good idea & that girl is not at all into dating stuff as she does not want to get involved with some random jerk & instead want to have just one person who really deserves her and is worth spending your whole life with. A pretty boring statement but yeah that’s what she believes in.

Do you think what she did was stupid by not giving her number? She started to think that turning down every other guy who approaches her is not a good idea but talking to strangers is not a good idea either. But the thing is that the guy approached her in a decent & nice way … What would you do???

This girl sounds like she cannot really appreciate how much guts it takes to approach a total stranger and think they’re worth the trouble of asking out. Its not really a very nice of you is it to judge someone so harshly who actually made the effort of talking to you…is it now? Was he staring at your chest while he asked you? Was he too close? Was he flirting? Was he creepy? Was there a better method available to him of getting your #? An ad in the paper perhaps? Do you think your husband will be your next door neighbor where you already know him? He will also be a stranger to you at some point and could ALSO be a complete jerk. There are no guarantees in life. By the way…if you do end up getting in touch with him…think about how you’ll behave because this theory of “waiting for the one man who truly deserves me and all my issues” is just that…a theory. Do you deserve him?